Five Abortions in three and a half years?...

Hello,
I saw the HELP A SISTER note you published and I felt you should publish my own story too.
My name is Modupe. I met a guy in the University when I was in my first year. His name is Tunde. He was in his third year then. We became friends and I liked him very much. I fell in love with him but I was not sure of his feelings towards me. He had a lot of female friends which always made me jealous and confused because I wasn’t quite sure of how much he liked me. Later, when he was in his final year, second semester to be precise. I was scared he was going to leave school and it will all be over, so I decided stop waiting and ask him out myself. I knew it was not a common thing to do, but I had to do it. I was scared he wouldn’t know how I felt about him. When I asked him out, he was shocked at first then he said “Okay, let’s give it a try”. When he passed out for Youth Service I was in 300level. Our relationship was very wonderful until he started his youth service. First, he started posting some pictures of he and a particular lady on facebook. The lady was also in his camp. I was not comfortable with it so I ask him and he said that she was just a close friend. When he finished his youth service he got a job at Zenith Bank. I was shocked when I learnt that she was working in the same Bank. He said they went for the interview together and they were both taken. At this time, we had started living together in his small apartment. Later that year, I got pregnant for the fifth time. I didn’t quickly realise I was pregnant because I menstrated till the fourth month. When I found out I was pregnant, I felt this was going to be a good news to Tunde since we’ve started living together and I felt we were heading towards something serious. The scan showed I was carrying a set of twins. I was glad that after all the abortions I could still conceive twins. When I told Tunde about it, he said he wasn’t ready and that he still had to make more money. I tried to explain to him that we had enough money to take care of ourselves and that I would get a job too so that I could assist him. I said I could not abort the pregnancy again because I had gone through four abortions already and me conceiving twins was just a sign of a second chance, moreso we were going to get married anyway. He succeeded in convincing me that day, telling me to give us more time. He said he wanted the best for his family and he dint want me to suffer. I aborted it again. This one was really painful, but I did it because I loved him and he promised to take care of me.
Four months later, I came home and found his lady friend in our apartment, in my kitchen. He was not in at that time so I wondered what she was doing in our house. I asked her and she said that Tunde told her to come over to cook him a particular stew she cooked him when he visited her, that they came home together, but he went to the public viewing centre to watch football.

I was shocked at what was happening. She even had the guts to wait for him till he came back home.
When Tunde got back, I called him to the room and told him how bitter I was at what happened. Things got very bad and he beat me up, though I held his shirt first. He beat me and told the lady to come inside the room. There and then, he told me he was having an affair with the lady and that he didn’t know how to tell me because I was the one pushing myself on him. He went further to say that he did not love me, afterall he did not ask me out and he didn’t tell me he was going to marry me.
My relationship ended that way. I loved him more than even myself. I had five abortions for him and we dated for three and a half years. It’s such a shame. Right now I’m single but not searching. I just wanted to tell you this story to share with you how evil men can be. I don’t have good narrating skills but I have tried to put it the way you will understand. Please, kindly publish it. Thank you.